Healthy Love Doesn’t Have to Be Boring: How to Keep the Spark

Some people think healthy love is boring. Usually because they confuse “no drama” with “no passion.”

Good news: you don’t have to pick between loyalty and butterflies.

✅ 1. Flirt—Even When You’re Comfy

Tease them at breakfast. Send a flirty text at work. Make out on the couch like teenagers. Spark stays alive when you stoke it on purpose.

✅ 2. Plan New Adventures

Routine kills romance faster than a cheating ex. Try a new restaurant. Take that dance class. Make memories that aren’t just Netflix and laundry.

✅ 3. Talk About What Turns You On

Yep. Sex talk. Open it up. Fantasies, boundaries, desires. Great sex in stable love is built, not assumed.

✅ 4. Show Gratitude, Often

“Thanks for making my coffee.” “You look amazing today.” Small praise beats grand gestures. It says, “I see you.” Every day.

Final Thought

Healthy love is calm. Keeping it exciting is your job—together. Ditch the drama. Keep the spark. Live happily unbored ever after.