We’ve all ignored red flags—sometimes because we didn’t recognize them, and sometimes because we hoped they’d just go away. (Spoiler alert: they don’t.)

Whether you’re freshly divorced, five years into dating, or knee-deep in your third “situationship,” these warning signs deserve your full attention.

Let’s break it down—no fluff, no filter, just real signs that you’re not crazy, they’re just not it.

So... Why Do You Keep Falling for People Who Hurt You?

You’re not stupid. You’re not broken.
But if you keep getting sucked into relationships that feel like emotional boot camp, it’s time to stop asking, “What’s wrong with them?” and start asking, “Why am I attracted to this?”

Here’s the hard truth:
Toxic feels familiar. And familiar feels safe—even when it’s not.