How to Get Over Someone You Still Love

Getting over someone you still love feels like trying to quit heroin with nothing but caffeine and Spotify. It’s brutal. It messes with your head. You wake up thinking about them, fall asleep checking your phone, and in between you lie to your friends about how “you’re totally fine.”

Yeah. Been there. More than once. Doesn’t matter if you’re a grown man in your 50s or a woman fresh off her first heartbreak—pain doesn’t care how old you are.

So let’s skip the soft, feel-good advice and get straight to it: how do you actually get over someone who still has your heart—even when you know they shouldn’t?dea.