We’ve all ignored red flags—sometimes because we didn’t recognize them, and sometimes because we hoped they’d just go away. (Spoiler alert: they don’t.)

Whether you’re freshly divorced, five years into dating, or knee-deep in your third “situationship,” these warning signs deserve your full attention.

Let’s break it down—no fluff, no filter, just real signs that you’re not crazy, they’re just not it.

So… What Is a Situationship?

It’s a romantic connection that lives in the gray area.
Not friends. Not in a committed relationship.
It’s the in-between, the undefined, the “we’re just vibing” zone.